I never make the first move. I always wait for the other guy to make the move. Maybe it is the fact that I can be very shy. Or maybe I just want to make sure the other guy is into me. David believes that either person can make the move. Victor is a bit unsure…was there a type of equality in relationships? Or did the older partner know best? Are gay relationships or for that matter any relationships ever equal? Is there always someone who wears the pants in the family? And no matter who’s top, or bottom is there someone who is the dominant partner? And are they the ones who rule the relationship? We could not come to a compromise. And that is what I like about our power catch ups. Everyone has an opinion!

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But after really talking to him about life and love, he left me intrigued and somewhat confused. Had I put him in a box and judged him too quickly? Was I interested in more than friendship? Was he going to read this ? (yes) I was going to have to get in line as he had dates for the rest of the year. I actually was hoping to set up some of my single friends…Aiden and Jim or Jim and Barry or Gav and Jim. But was I the one who wanted to be set up? I did flirt it up with the fireman from Stanmore! Sometimes I think I am so used to being the single guy that when I find datable guys I actually run away. I am scared. People often describe me as confident but deep down I’m an insecure wreck. It is all an act. It was a fun night Gav. You are truly an amazing guy. I hope we can hang out again, maybe in this side of the bridge.

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In honour of David who recently returned from Israel, I figured I would post some eye candy from Israel. The model from the left is an Israeli hottie…Shalom..Shalom! Last night David, Victor and I had a power dinner catch up. And of course..boys were on the agenda! Victor has met a wonderful older, intelligent and charming man. Victor found himself attracted to his daddy who was clearly not his usual type. We use the term daddy to refer to single, available older gentlemen in the age rage of 40-45. There is a certain degree of sexiness in a little bit of grey and both Victor and I agreed that older men do come with a certain degree of experience both in and out of the bedroom. David on the other hand is not a fan of daddies. So Victor wanted to jump the daddy. But he was afraid to make the first move. I have written about this topic before. In gay relationships who makes the first move? And does age play a role in it?

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It was hot. Best sex I have had in a few months. He was as much into me (pardon the pun) and I was into him. I am hoping he becomes a long term fuck buddy. But Mr Tatts just moved from Melbourne and a hottie like that needs to get around in this city. But getting back to the main story…this was the first time I was going to a party of someone I had never met. Sure I read Gav’s blog everyday but I did not know him or his friends. I was also told not to talk about the blog. The crowd was very mixed but seemed segregated by sexual orientation. gays and fag hags in the lounge and straights in the bedroom. I thought it should have been the other way around. Fellow blogger Erasmus was there too with a cute fireman friend who kindly opened the windows and let the air in. I had a good catch up with Jim, who I was meeting for the second time. Jim had actually dated two acquaintances of mine and I found that a bit strange.

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But I wondered, when do you decide to close yourself for inspection? When do you drop the three balls or men and just play with one? If you are dating a few guys, when do you start focusing on just one? My friend David and his new boyfriend stopped seeing other people a few weeks after they met. They did not talk about their exclusivity but neither David or his boyfriend would even consider dating or sleeping with anyone else. A workshop on relationships that I attended last week said 1/3 of gay couples are monogamous, 1/3 have a clear understanding on having an open relationship and 1/3 do not talk about it, so each juggles other men on the side. I could never juggle..I could when I was younger but I do not have time or energy to have a deep emotional connection with more than one guy. A sexual connection yeah..but not an emotional one. At least I have not put any eggs in any baskets yet. I’m just watching all the juggling from the sidelines.

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